Creating Robust Discussions

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๐‘ช๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐‘น๐’๐’ƒ๐’–๐’”๐’• ๐‘ซ๐’Š๐’”๐’„๐’–๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’๐’”: ๐‘ถ๐’๐’† ๐’Š๐’Ž๐’‘๐’๐’“๐’•๐’‚๐’๐’• ๐’Œ๐’†๐’š ๐’๐’‡ ๐‘ด๐’๐’…๐’†๐’“๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’

 

In the world of professional moderation, one of the key goals is to foster robust discussions -conversations that are strong, healthy, and vigorous. As Anya Sitaram, a seasoned broadcaster, journalist, and documentary producer, puts it, a moderator’s role is distinct from that of a newscaster. While a newscaster may thrive on creating controversy and conflict, a moderator aims to guide discussions that are engaging, insightful, and productive without tipping into the territory of toxicity.

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐——๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜?

A robust discussion is one where differing viewpoints are aired and debated with vigor. Itโ€™s not about avoiding conflict altogether, but about ensuring that the conversation remains constructive. Anya Sitaram defines a robust discussion as one where “people disagree with each other and do it quite forcefully,” but in a way that remains respectful and solution oriented.

The word โ€œrobustโ€ means โ€œstrong and healthy; vigorousโ€ – the key here is โ€œand healthyโ€. A robust discussion can be passionate, opinionated, full of conflicts and different points of views – but it is done in a way that is healthy.

The goal is to create a dynamic where the audience feels engaged, the speakers feel respected, and the discussion leads to actionable insights. “You donโ€™t want to have an elephant in the room,” Anya says. Instead, a good moderator ensures that all pertinent issues are addressed openly, but with care not to let the conversation devolve into a shouting match.

๐—ง๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—–๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐——๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€

Anya Sitaram, with her extensive experience moderating high-stakes panels, offers three essential tips for ensuring that discussions remain robust without becoming confrontational:

Talk to the Speakers in Advance:

Understanding your speakersโ€™ boundaries is crucial. Before the event, take the time to discuss with each speaker how far they are willing to be pushed on certain topics. This allows you to gauge how to steer the conversation and ensures that no one feels blindsided during the discussion. “You try and speak to the speakers beforehand, so you know how far theyโ€™re prepared to be asked,” Anya advises.

Use Humor to Ease Tension:

Humor can be a powerful tool in moderation, especially when tensions run high. A well-timed joke can diffuse a potentially heated exchange, keeping the atmosphere light and the discussion on track. However, itโ€™s important to strike the right balanceโ€”humor should never alienate the audience.

 

Always Be Ready to Think on Your Feet:

Flexibility is key in moderation. A good moderator is always prepared to pivot, especially when the discussion starts to veer into unproductive territory. “You have to be ready to think on your feet,” says Anya. Knowing when to dial down the intensity and bring the conversation back to a constructive tone is essential.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ: ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—”๐˜‚๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒโ€™๐˜€ ๐—”๐—ฑ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ

As a BBC presenter, Anya would sometimes play โ€˜The Devilโ€™s Advocateโ€™, but as a moderator, her job is to be โ€˜The Audienceโ€™s Advocateโ€™, because as a moderator, your primary responsibility is to the audience. You are their advocate, ensuring that their questions are answered, and that the discussion meets their needs for insight and learning. Never forget: The audience (often comprised of experts) is there to gain new perspectives and to hear from thought leaders, so itโ€™s your job to facilitate a conversation that delivers on those expectations.

“The audience’s advocate means someone who is there to answer their questions because theyโ€™re coming to find out the latest on any issue,” Anya explains. This involves not only anticipating the audienceโ€™s questions but also ensuring that the discussion remains relevant and enlightening.

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—น๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป: ๐— ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—•๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—”๐—ฐ๐˜

Creating a robust discussion is a delicate balancing act. Itโ€™s about fostering a space where strong opinions can be expressed and debated without tipping into confrontation. As Anya Sitaram emphasizes, the goal is to reach conclusions that are actionable, not just to spark controversy for its own sake.

In the end, a successful moderator knows when to let the flames of debate burn brightly and when to gently turn down the heat, ensuring that the discussion remains both strong and healthy – robust in the truest sense of the word.